You know that sentence? “You always handle it.”

I’ve heard that so many times.

And yeah… I did.
I handled it.
I took care of it.
I fixed the mess.
I made it nice.

But here’s the truth no one wants to say:
People treat you like you’ll just figure it out - because you’ve shown them you will.

Not because you wanted to.
Not because it felt good.
But because somewhere deep down,
you thought you had to.
To earn your place.
To stay loved.
To not be left behind.

And that’s the pattern.
You’re not asking, “Why don’t they see me?”
You’re asking - without even knowing it
“Why do I feel like I still have to prove that I’m worth seeing?”

That’s what shows up in money.
In love.
In your business.
In all the places you’re tired… and don’t know why.

So no - you’re not too much.
And you’re not doing it wrong.

But maybe, just maybe…
you’ve taught people a version of you
that forgot how to choose herself.

And now it’s time to unlearn that.