I always have to do everything! You do not keep your agreements. I run against my husband, I am angry that I have to do all the tasks and I feel no support from him at all. It's always the same song with you!

Why, he said?

Why? Well, you come home from work, fall down on the couch, wait until I start cooking dinner. Then with a lot of effort you do the dishes and the entire kitchen is wet, then I can mop it up again. And to think that you will be home from work in 15 minutes, while I am in a traffic jam for an hour, before that I am home.

I'm broken!

It is March 2015, 2 months before I catch my husband cheating. I have been the driving force in this relationship for 5 years, completely in my masculine energy. But I don't like it anymore, I don't get any cooperation from my husband, who is clearly more in his feminine energy!

As a lightning strike, I realized that I had created this myself, because you are always the creator of your own reality.

I suddenly found out that the relationship with my father played a crucial role in this. Because my father "saw" me especially if I made good money. If I did a lot!

And look here, I did exactly the same thing, not only in this relationship, but in all my relationships!

If you now also always attract those initiativeless men, it is useful that you take a closer look at your own, especially your masculine energy and learn to connect with your feminine energy, but especially why you are so in your masculine energy. That always has a cause.

And as long as you do not find the cause, you not only continue to expose yourself to the chance of a burnout, but you also attract an initiativeless partner and bystanders!

Nice cycle 🙈!

If you want to get out of this cycle, then you are at the right place.